

They need to see their father work hard and be strong. They need to know that their dad bangs their mom relentlessly.

If you want to build a stable family, all those things are necessary to ensuring the fitness of your children. These are all the things that you think you have to let go of, and for some its necessary. You work out, you eat simple and clean, you work like a man who wants to work. Your time alone becomes a blissful morning of coffee and reading on your sunny terrace with no one to ask you things. You have your own time whenever you want it, for as you age through your 30's you no longer feel the need to make women happy as you have learnt the true ingredient for making women happy. Often with 3 or 4 women in a week as you learn to confidently navigate openly dating multiple women. You have sex almost every night for nearly two decades. Your libido and testosterone are extremely high. There is so much of your image wrapped up in being with new women and multiple women. Not 40+ but I fall into the category in all other aspects. She wants to have a career, and play the dating field, and that's her foremost priority.

#BETA MALE ORBITER PROFESSIONAL#
This is typical for the post-modern professional female. She wasn't a supremely conscientious mother, and often my needs fell by the wayside.

"I'm not interested in cooking and cleaning up for some man," she once said, in a tone of voice that I would years later hear emitted from the likes of an empowered buzz-cut dyke at a pride parade. Her disposition was feminist, insubordinate, willful, and accustomed to living on her own terms, and my father didn't want to get involved in that shit-show. She loved my father nominally but her anti-marriage disposition undermined any prospect of their forming a functional, permanent union. My birth was a buzzer-beater (40 y/o mother with a professional career). If a woman waits until she's 32 to think about marriage and kids, then she has just demonstrated beyond a shadow of a doubt that she doesn't place a high value on marriage and kids I'll keep the forum updated as the years progress I hope to settle down by 35, I'm pretty determined. So in conclusion - I think 30 is the ideal age for a man who cannot get a big age gap (25 year old woman) and 35 is the ideal age for a man that can get a big age gap (20-25 year old woman). Best case scenario he can have 1-3 children with her, but bear in mind all of those children face a higher risk of physical or mental defects because of the parent's age. He would need a certain amount of time to filter/vet her to ensure her suitability, and during this time her ovaries are drying up. Let's use some hypotheticals - best case scenario: a 40 year old man goes fishing for a 30 year old woman. In developing countries age gaps (as a generalisation) max-out around 10 years, and even 10 year age gaps are certainly not the norm. Yes men have a bit more "shelf-life" than women - But men have a biological clock too. This topic has already been discussed at great length many times so let's keep it short. But it's better than never doing it at all. Having kids after 40 is not the ideal age. I'll assume you mean "settling down" = having babymama & kids. Older players and seasoned veterans are starting to retire from sport of sex, the red pill kicks in and they starts to see the bigger picture / meaning of life. I guess the recent life epiphanies of public figures like Roosh & Krauser are happening at a larger scale en masse all across the manosphere. Wow there's lots of threads recently about transitioning into fatherhood.
